The Florida Department of Children and Families is investigating an alleged case of sexual abuse of an elderly resident at a Jacksonville nursing home. The Jacksonville Sheriff’s Office arrested 35-year-old Anthony Mgugua Njorge early Sunday morning at Regents Park nursing home. He is charged with sexual battery on a mentally impaired and physically helpless victim.

The latest inspection report of Regents Park, conducted by the Florida Agency on Health Care Administration in August, gives the facility just one star out of five in most categories. According to the AHCA website, “The fewer stars a facility receives, the more the facility was found to be in noncompliance with the regulations governing nursing homes.” The Federal Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services also publishes a Nursing Home Compare web site that provides additional information to compare nursing homes in Florida and the nation.

In this particular incident, a witness told police she heard something from one of the rooms, and when she went in she saw Njorge engaged in a sexual activity with a woman in the room. The woman is disabled.The witness told police she reached for her cell phone, but Njorge tried to stop her.She was able to make a call and someone else came into the room. That witness told police she saw Njorge cleaning up and then throw something in the disposal room.

DCF Spokesperson John Harrell says his agency has investigated eight allegations of abuse at Regents Park in the past year, though none have been verified.

“Of those eight reports, four showed no findings, but four had some findings, including inadequate supervision [of patients]. That happened a couple of times,” Harrell said.

Njorge also worked at Life Care Center, another Southside nursing home. DCF is now looking into whether the attack is an isolated incident.Police are withholding any further information due to the nature of the crime and the investigation. Njorge remains in jail on a $500,000 bond.

Florida Senior Living Advisor offers a complete searchable database of all senior living facilities in Florida, including nursing homes, assisted living facilities, adult day care centers, skilled nursing units, independent living, continuing care retirement communities and hospice. As part of your research on particular facilities, you can check their rating in the AHCA guide; of course, you should always visit and inspect a facility in person before making such an important decision.

I’ve heard from many people lately who are just beginning their efforts to help a loved one select a Florida senior living facility. They tell me they feel overwhelmed and are so afraid of making a wrong decision. While every situation is unique, there are some standard ideas and steps that I suggest, including:

• Determine what type of facility the person needs. You can read my definitions to learn the differences between nursing homes, skilled nursing units, assisted living facilities, continuing care retirement communities and adult day care centers. In general, most people hope to retain as much independence as possible. (An increasingly popular option is in-home care. I’ll write more about a great home care company located in Central Florida in one of my next blogs.)
• Decide what part of the state of Florida your loved one is interested or willing to live. I’ve divided my database into the following regions: Panhandle, North Florida, Central Florida, Central Gulf Coast, Southeast Coast, Southwest Gulf Coast, South Central Florida. You can also look at my map to understand where those regions are.
• Conduct a search of the Florida Senior Living Advisor database, based on your answers to the above two questions. If a facility has a website, I provide a direct link to it from the database. So look at the facility’s website to get more information. Of course, keep in mind that some of these Florida senior living facilities provide very detailed information on their websites, others do not. If a facility you are interested in does not have a website, you will need to call to get more information.
• Look at Florida Senior Living Advisor’s “Evaluating Facilities” page for a list of the questions that I asked – and some I wish I had asked – as I was researching facilities for my elderly father. The answers you receive can help you start to narrow down your list of options.
• Of course a big deciding factor is cost. This will vary greatly from facility to facility.

And don’t forget good, old-fashioned word-of-mouth. Talk to friends and neighbors. This is what lead me to help my father find the perfect facility – a casual conversation at a social event with an acquaintance I had not seen in several months. When she asked, “What’s new?” I proceeded to explain how I was immersed  in helping my father select a Florida senior living facility. She responded by telling me about a facility she had just visited with her elderly mother. And the rest, as they say, is history.

One more idea: if you feel like you need more help, someone to walk you through the process, consider hiring a senior care management company. I  recently met a wonderful woman named Patrice Antony who owns and operates Elder Advocates, Inc. in the Orlando area. Patrice is a Physical Therapist and Geriatric Clinical Specialist with more than 27 years of experience in working with the handicapped and the elderly. Patrice and her staff will do as much or as little as you need – from helping you research and select a senior facility, to consulting with medical staff on a client’s behalf, and negotiating with insurance companies. For more information, visit the Elder Advocates website.

I’d love to hear back from anyone currently going through this search process for an elderly family member. Comment on this blog or send  me an email at mitra@flseniorlivingadvisor.com.